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Thursday, April 9, 2009

An Angel's Favorite Tennessee Whiskey Mousse


Today I attended the Jefferson Awards luncheon and was reminded of my dear friend Dianne Odell. A couple of years ago I was humbled to receive this honor for my friendship and support of Dianne. Dianne was born in 1947 and was the longest living polio survivor in the world confined to an iron lung. Since the age of three, she was paralyzed from the neck down and lived her life flat on her back for over 50 years, watching the world pass her by through a mirror attached to the lung just above her head. This 700 pound machine on which she depended for every breath of life was her yellow submarine, or so she loved to say.

Dianne didn't ask for polio and she didn't ask for pity or help. We met by chance when I read an article in the local paper and called and asked if I might come out and meet her. With a songwriter friend and his guitar in tow, off we went and within no time you forgot about the whizzing contraption that encased her body and you were drawn into her world. Dianne loved to sing and she sang Amazing Grace and Delta Dawn that night at the top of her lungs. I watched as her mother fed her a spoonful at a time and quickly learned that she loved caramel and chocolate. I wondered what she wore inside that machine. I wondered if she could feel anything, and if she ever wondered why me.

Over the next several years, we became friends and I invited others to meet her. Some were members of our community, some were well known, but all learned lessons of life from Dianne and none will ever forget her. Jane Seymour and her husband James Keach, actor David Keith, pop singer Matt Morris, Dallas Cowboy Cliff Harris, Broadway star Gary Morris, sisters Stella and Dolly Parton, music producers Norbert Putnam and Buddy Cannon, Vice President Al Gore and her hero Christopher Reeve. They all called and visited with her.

Dianne told me she knew she was loved and people did things for her because they wanted to and for that she felt blessed. She thought she could do nothing for anyone, lying helplessly to stare at the ceiling, watch tv or visit with guests day after day. But most days were lonely. Her parents devoted their lives and love to her care, as did her two sisters. Dianne wrote a children's book about a little dim star, Blinky, who was afraid no one would ever want to make a wish on him. She attended college, received an honorary doctorate, was a Paul Harris Rotary fellow, and was always ready to console her friends and lift their spirits.

We had fundraisers for her to supplement her around the clock care. We had parties for her. We decorated her Christmas tree. We cooked and would have a girls night giggling and eating dinner with her. Each time we left, I always thought of all the things we would see, feel, smell, taste, and experience before we would see her again. She would only meet those people who chose to enter her room and experience what took place there in a rural corner of western Tennessee.

She loved this chocolate mousse and I made it for her numerous times. She loved it when my dog, Senator, stood on his hind legs and nuzzled her checks. She loved anything purple or pink. She loved people, life, her family, her church and most importantly her Lord. And he sent some heavenly angels to carry her home almost a year ago now. I will never forget her and my prayer for each of you is that you have a Dianne Odell in your life, because your life will be so enriched by it.
Today one of the Jefferson Award recipients said that winnng the award for community service was like winning a prize for eating chocolate - it's just something he loved doing. And you know, that's how I felt about Dianne, being her friend and helping her in some small way was just something I loved. Please google the Jefferson Awards which were started by Jacquline Kennedy Onassis and make this mousse either for yourself or for someone who inspires you the way Dianne Odell did all who knew her. Now she's our angel and I just bet this is still a favorite with her.

Tennessee Whiskey Mousse

8 (1 ounce) squares semisweet chocolate, coarsely chopped
¼ cup water
¼ cup Jack Daniels
2 tablespoons butter
3 egg yolks
4 tablespoons sugar
1 ¼ cups whipping cream, whipped
In a double boiler, heat chocolate, Jack Daniels and butter until the chocolate and butter are melted. Cool for 10 minutes. In a small heavy saucepan, whisk egg yolks, sugar and water. Cook and stir over low heat until mixture reaches 160 degrees, about 1-2 minutes. Remove from the heat; whisk in chocolate mixture. Set saucepan in ice and stir until cooled, about 5-10 minutes. Fold in whipped cream. Spoon into dessert dishes. Refrigerate for 4 hours or overnight. You can top with a spoonful of whipped cream and shaved chocolate if you like. Visit http://designsbygollum.blogspot.com for Foodie Friday.

19 comments:

Preppy 101 said...

How moving this post is. Honestly, I am rather at a loss for words when I think of her world. Those of us who got the polio vaccine were so blessed, weren't we? I am sure you made Dianne's life better, as she did yours. Have a wonderful Easter. xoxo

susan said...

Libby, Thanks for a wonderful post and the reminder of what a gift life is. I am reminded to live with gratitude and to try to live with more selflessness. Thank you for sharing Diane's story with us.

Cedar ... said...

Libby, what a wonderful tribute to Dianne. I have tears in my eyes, not of pity for Dianne but in thankfulness for my great fortune to have lived 67 years in realative good health. I wish I had met her. What gifts she gave to everyone without even knowing it! Thank you for sharing Dianne with us!

Musings From A French Cottage said...

What a wonderful and heartwarming story. Thank you for a great post! I will definitely try this delicious recipe. Thanks for sharing it!

Hugs and Easter Blessings to you,
Kathleen

Domestic Designer said...

What a beautiful story! Thanks so much for sharing it.

Donna-FFW said...

Libby, fantastic story. Teary eyed tissue please..

Love this recipe, lovejack Daniels.. mentioned your blog name in my post today in jest;) Love this truly!

Mumzie said...

Libby, Thank you for such a beautiful and inspiring story. Conner my Scottish Terrier and I made regular visits to the nursing home where my mom was a resident for over two years. When she passed, we stopped. I've forgotten how much those visits meant, not just to my mom, but to every single patient we encountered. The joy I experienced just saying hello and visiting with everyone was priceless. Conner loved his visits too just as much as they loved him. Scottish Terrier kisses are the best! We have to get out and do some more visiting. Easter Blessings. Mumzie

Cass @ That Old House said...

What a beautiful post; many thanks for the reminder to be grateful always. Dianne's life, as constricted as it was physically, clearly had a far-reaching effect; a life well lived.

The recipe looks good! Thanks ... Cass

Lori E said...

Some stories make you smile and cry at the same time.

imjacobsmom said...

I work in a dental office and we have many patients of all walks of life. It is a joy and a pleasure to help them all. I understand how you feel. It's purely selfish of me to enjoy the feelings that come from seeing some of our patients. We have an elderly gentleman that comes in for a denture adjustment every week (that really doesn't need adjusting) just because we all gush over him. You gave such a beautiful tribute to your friend Dianne, truly inspiring....Robyn

PS - Your recipe sounds yummy!

The Stylish House said...

Libby,
Of the posts I have read of yours, this is by far my favorite. I was deeply touched by this story of your dear friend Dianne Odell, and her life story. When we witness someone brought down to the bare essence of life it truly gives one pause. It is a reminder to reflect on the meaning of our life, and how very fortunate we are for even the smallest pleasures. I will carry a small part of Diane with me, she may not have left that room but her sprit soars. Wishing you a Happy Easter…. ~Cathy~

Betsy from Tennessee said...

Great post, Libby.... What a friend you were to Dianne Odell..AND--what a brave woman she was. My cousin was married to a wonderful woman who had polio. I'm not sure how long she lived--but it was for quite a long time I think.

Life is so precious... We all need to take time to thank God for all of our blessings--especially on this Good Friday.
Hugs,
Betsy

Elizabeth said...

A wonderful Post Libby,Thank you for sharing it.I am sure it blessed many as it did me.

Happy Easter,
Elizabeth

Laura Ingalls Gunn said...

Oh yum! Beautiful! Have a glorious Easter weekend!

bj said...

Ummmm....this sounds so good. i like just about anything with a little Jack in it! ;>)
Happy day, bj

vicki archer said...

Libby - what a beautiful story about your dear friend. I am happy to have found your blog and thank you so much for visiting French Essence. Happy Easter and have a wonderful weekend, xv.

gastonstudio said...

What a wonderful tribute to your friend. I can't imagine what her life was like in that iron lung, but I had a childhood friend who had polio and she often spoke of how lucky she was to have 'gotten away' with a only a "gimpy leg" (her words).

And thank you for joining my blog.
Jane

Lori (All That Splatters) said...

What an inspirational post. And the mousse looks amazing. Thank you for sharing your story!

Florida Sue said...

She was so very brave wasn't she? I just read this article Diane O'Dell's story
Thanks for the inspiring post; you were a wonderful friend to her.